Rearranging….!!!

The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people. Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance. Our appearance is where we can hide behind, but an appearance doesn’t say anything about a character. Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for doesn’t seem to matter. No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance. It is our mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us. Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. Not our eyes. the whole world is in our minds. Learn to see things in proper light. Learn to see souls instead of bodies, by using your mind instead of your eyes.

But darling, only the moon is loved with its every face….Not people..!!

It isn’t easy to be positive all the time. Some days you will feel like you just can’t do it anymore. You want to give up on everything. You feel like you have nothing to live for. You feel like your efforts are going to waste. You feel negative emotions. You are around people that makes you feel vulnerable, and you just think, “how am I going to ever handle all this?” But wait…if you take a moment to think about the bigger picture, you’ll understand that you’ve fought for will never go to vain. Well let me lay it down a simpler way, “You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you, making you spill your coffee everywhere. Why did you spill the coffee? you spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. Had there been anything in the cup, you would have spilled it. the point is whatever is inside the cup, is what will spill out. Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you(which will happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It’s easy to fake it, until you get rattled. So, we have to ask ourselves, “what’s in my cup?” When life gets tough, what spills out? Joy, gratefulness, peace? Or does anger, bitterness, harsh words and reactions come out? You choose! Today let’s work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation, kindness, gentleness and love for others.

One who delights in solitude is either a wild beast or a God!!

Just be the freaking person who cares more. Be the person who tries harder, loves stronger, gives more of a shit than all of the half-alive people who surround them. Be the person who answers their messages, shows up to their commitments and doesn’t leave others hanging or guessing at their eternally vague intentions. Be the person you wish you were dating. If you’re sick of the game then stop playing it, if you’re tired of the bullshit, then cut it. Because the last thing this world needs is one more indifferent person. If you’re the only one left with passion, then use it. Use the hell out of it. At the end of your life, go out with a bruised-up, worn out heart that gave too much and loved too strongly and felt too fiercely. Go out with the certainty that you gave it everything you had and didn’t hold anything back. Go out empty-handed when it comes to should-haves and might-have-beens. Because it’s an infinitely more fulfilling way to live than the alternative. It will always be more honourable to be out in the field getting trampled on than to be on the sidelines feeling superior for never having tired. The universe works magic!! You pay a price for something, you get it back and ten times more. So hold onto your goodness, try to be as positive as you can. Smile at your haters, and think about something that makes you smile or feel better to keep yourself distracted from the negativity. Try your best to stay away from the negativity. you might not be able to do it all in one go, but taking it slow, step by step, is still good enough as long as you’re moving forward, but know this: you are destined to have a happy ending after everything you’ve been through.

Signing off, your lovingly,

Rashmi Manjunath ❤